Te Whakatakotoranga hei Mahi ki te Ārai i te Whakakeketanga
Ko te whakahāwea i te taha whakapono he tukanga e pāngia ai te tangata e ngā panonitanga o ōna tirohanga, kare ā-roto, me ōna whanonga, e ārahi ana i a ia ki te tautoko i ngā whakaaro tino nui e whakatika ana i te tutu, i te whakakorekore katoa rānei i ētahi atu. Kāore tēnei tukanga e puta ohorere tonu. He maha ngā wā ka whanake haere mā roto i ngā wheako whaiaro, ngā awe taiao, te whakaaturanga ki ngā ariā i roto i ngā wāhi matihiko, me ngā kare ā-roto o te noho wehe i te taha pāpori. Nā te mea he hononga tata te whakahāwea i te taha whakapono ki ngā āhuatanga hinengaro me te taha pāpori o te tangata, ka taea e te tohutohu te noho hei mahi ārai nui, inā koa i ngā wāhanga tōmua i mua i te whakapūmautanga o ngā whakapono tino nui, ka whanake hei mahi whakangaro.
Te mārama ki te whakahāwea hei tukanga hinengaro-pāpori
He mea nui kia tirohia te whakahāwea i te iwi ehara i te mea he take haumarutanga anake, engari he take atawhai tangata anō hoki. He maha ngā rangahau e whakaatu ana he rerekē ngā āhuatanga e akiaki ana i te whakahāwea i te iwi: ngā wheako whakahāwea, te mamae, te mate, te pakanga whānau, te korenga mātauranga, te korenga ōhanga rānei, te rapu tuakiri, te hiahia mō te tikanga o te ao, me te hiahia kia mōhiotia, kia noho tahi. Ina pōuri te tangata, ina kore e maiohatia, ina kore rānei he wāhi haumaru hei kōrero, ka taea e ngā whakaaro tino whakahāwea te whakaatu i tētahi "whakautu" ngāwari noa iho: te tuku i te tino mōhio, he hoariri mārama, me tētahi hapori pakari e kitea ana.
I te ao matihiko, he maha ngā wā ka tere ake tēnei tukanga. Ka taea e ngā rauropi pāpāho pāpori te whakaatu i tētahi ki ngā ihirangi rite tonu, engari ko ngā rōpū ipurangi e whakarato ana i te tautoko kare ā-roto teka me te whakamana tonu. I roto i tēnei horopaki , ko te aukati ko te aukati noa i ngā ihirangi. Me whai huarahi e aro ana ki ngā pūtake: ngā matea hinengaro, ngā whanaungatanga pāpori, me te kaha o te tangata ki te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto me te whakaaroaro nui. Ko te tohutohu he wāhanga matua o tēnei tukanga.
Te tohutohu hei wāhi haumaru hei mārama ki a koe anō me ō wheako
He tukanga tautoko ngaio te tohutohu e āhei ai ngā tāngata takitahi ki te tūhura i ō rātou whakaaro, kare ā-roto, uara, me ngā wheako o te ao i roto i te huarahi haumaru me te hanganga. Hei aukati i te whakahāwea i te whakapono, he wāhi haumaru te tohutohu e āhei ai ngā tāngata takitahi ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou āwangawanga me te kore e wehi i te whakahē. He maha ngā tāngata e kukume ana ki ngā whakaaro tino nui, e raru ana ki ngā pātai matua: "Ko wai ahau?", "He aha te koretake o te ao?", "He aha taku tūranga i tēnei ao?" Ki te kore he putanga hauora mō ēnei pātai, ka ngoikore rātou ki te rapu whakautu tere i roto i ngā rōpū e tuku ana i ngā kōrero pango-mā.
Mā te mahi tohutohu , ka āwhina ngā kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro i ngā kiritaki ki te tautuhi i ngā kare ā-roto o roto—pērā i te riri, te pouri, te whakama, te wehi rānei—me te mārama ki ngā pūtake o aua kare ā-roto. Ina mārama ngā kare ā-roto, ka pai ake te whakahaere a te tangata i aua kare ā-roto me te kore e tahuri ki te whanonga pukuriri, e whakapae rānei i ētahi atu. Ka āwhina hoki te mahi tohutohu ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga whakaaroaro, te kaha ki te kite mārama ake i a koe anō me te aromatawai i ngā whakapono kia pakeke ake.
Te kitenga wawe: te mōhio ki ngā āhuatanga mōrearea me ngā tohu o te ngoikore
Ko tētahi o ngā takoha nui o te mahi tohutohu ko te kitenga wawe i te ngoikore. Ka taea e ngā kaitohutohu i ngā kura, i ngā whare wānanga, i ngā wāhi tiaki hauora, me ngā ratonga pāpori te kite i ngā huringa whanonga: te wehe atu i te hapori, te kaha ake o te riri, te nekehanga ki tētahi momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tino kaha, te hiahia nui rānei ki ngā kōrero mauahara. Heoi, me tūpato te ārai whai hua. Ehara i te mea ko ngā huringa whanonga katoa he tikanga whakakeke, ā, ko te hē o te tapanga ka arahi atu ki te mokemoke.
Ka whakatenatenahia e te kaupapa tohutohu he huarahi kōrero, kaua e ahu mai i te whakama. Kāore ngā kaitohutohu e hohoro ki te whakatau, engari e tono ana i ngā tāngata takitahi kia whakapuaki i ō rātou wheako, ō rātou awe, me ō rātou wawata. Mā tēnei, ka āwhina te kaupapa tohutohu ki te wehewehe i waenga i te hiahia tika mō te tūhuratanga tuakiri me te whai wāhi atu ka arahi pea ki te mahi tino kino.
Te whakapakari i te manawanui me ngā pūkenga whakahaere kare ā-roto
Ka tupu te whakahāwea i te nuinga o te wā ina kore te tangata e kaha ki te aro atu ki ngā pēhanga o te ao. Ka taea e te tohutohu te whakapakari i te manawanui - te kaha ki te hoki whakamuri me te tupu i roto i ngā āhuatanga uaua. Ka taea e ngā kaitohutohu te whakangungu i ngā kiritaki ki te tautuhi i ngā whakaaro kino aunoa, te whakawhanake i tētahi tirohanga taurite ake, me te whakatū i ngā tikanga hauora hei whakaiti i te ahotea.
Ko te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto te mea nui. He maha ngā wā ka whakamahia e ngā kōrero tino kino ngā kare ā-roto kaha pērā i te riri me te mauahara. Mena ka taea e te tangata te kite i ngā mea e whakaoho ana i ō rātou kare ā-roto, te whakamarie i a rātou anō, me te whakahaere i ō rātou kaha i runga i te whai hua (hei tauira, mā roto i ngā mahi pāpori, ngā hākinakina, ngā mahi auaha rānei), ka taea te whakaiti i te rongonui o ngā ariā tutu. Ka taea te whiriwhiri i ngā huarahi tohutohu hinengaro-whanonga, te tohutohu aro-ā-roto, ngā huarahi rānei e pā ana ki te whara i runga i ngā hiahia takitahi.
Te whakawhanake i te whakaaroaro arohaehae me te ātete ki ngā whakatairanga
He maha ngā wā ka whakamahia e te whakahāwea hou ngā whakatairanga matatau: ngā kōrero mō ngā patunga, ngā ataata kare ā-roto, ngā "meka" whakapohehe, me ngā ariā whakatakoto whakaaro. Ka taea e te tohutohu te āwhina i ngā tāngata ki te whakawhanake i te mātauranga mōhiohio me te whakaaroaro arohaehae, ehara i te mea mā roto i ngā tautohetohe werawera, engari mā roto i ngā pātai whakaaroaro pēnei i: nō hea mai ēnei mōhiohio, he aha ngā taunakitanga, he aha ngā whakaaro whakapae pea, ā, ko wai ka whai hua mai i te whakapono ki a ia?
Ka taea hoki e ngā kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro te āwhina i ngā kiritaki kia mōhio ki ngā tauira whakaaro hinengaro ngoikore, pērā i te whakaaro pango-mā (te titiro ki te ao he taha e rua noa iho), te whānui rawa (te whānui mō tētahi rōpū motuhake), te whakatau kino rānei (te kite i ngā āhuatanga e anga tonu ana ki te aituā). Ina kitea ēnei tauira, ka ngāwari ake te mawhiti o te tangata i te mahanga o ngā kōrero māmā, tino uaua.
Te whakapakari i ngā hononga pāpori me te wairua noho tahi hauora
Ko tētahi o ngā mea nui e kukume ana i te whakakeke ko te hapori. He maha ngā wā ka tukuna e ngā rōpū tino whakakeke te wairua o te whanaungatanga, te kaupapa tahi, me te tuakiri pakari. Ehara i te mea ko te tangata takitahi anake te kaupapa tohutohu engari he huarahi hoki hei whakapakari i te tautoko hapori hauora. Ka taea e ngā kaitohutohu te ārahi i ngā kiritaki ki te hanga anō i ngā whanaungatanga whānau, te whakapai ake i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te whakauru atu rānei ki ngā rōpū hapori pai pēnei i ngā whakahaere pāpori, ngā mahi whakapono ngāwari, ngā rōpū tūao, ngā rōpū hiahia rānei.
Hei tāpiritanga, ka taea e te kaunihera whānau te āwhina i te whakatau i ngā pakanga o te marena, ngā momo whakatipu tamariki kino, ngā whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kati rānei. He maha ngā wā he mea tiaki kaha te whānau mahana me te aro nui ki ngā awe kino. Ina rongo te tangata e rangona ana, e manakohia ana hoki i te kāinga, kāore pea rātou e rapu i ngā "whānau whakakapi" i roto i ngā rōpū e tono ana i te pono matapo.
Te tohutohu i ngā kura me ngā puni: te ārai i ngā wā whakaraerae
He rōpū ngoikore ngā taiohi me ngā rangatahi, e rapu ana i te tuakiri me te tikanga. He wāhi rautaki ngā kura me ngā whare wānanga hei ārai i te whakakeke mā roto i ngā ratonga tohutohu. Ka taea te whakakotahi i ngā kaupapa tohutohu me te mātauranga āhua, te whakangungu whakatau pakanga, te kōrero whakawhitiwhiti ahurea, me te whakapakari i ngā pūkenga pāpori-kare ā-roto.
Me whai whakangungu motuhake ngā kaiārahi kura/kāreti hei whakahaere i ngā take whakakeke me te āta whakaaro: te pupuri i te muna, te hanga whakawhirinaki, me te mōhio ki te wā e tika ai te tuku i ngā ākonga ki ētahi atu ratonga mēnā he tūponotanga o te tutu. Ko ngā huarahi e whiu ana, e whakama ana rānei i ngā ākonga ka kaha ake te whakakaha i ngā kare ā-roto o te riri me te mokemoke.
Te mahi tahi a-rāngai me ngā tikanga matatika i roto i te kaupapa tohutohu
Kāore e taea e ngā kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro anake te aukati i te whakakeke. Me mahi tahi me ngā kaiako, ngā kaiārahi hapori, ngā kaiārahi whakapono, ngā kaimahi hapori, ngā tohunga hinengaro haumanu, me ngā whare hauora. Heoi anō, me whakaute tēnei mahi tahi i ngā tikanga matatika ngaio: te noho muna, te whakaae a te kiritaki, me te mātāpono o te "kaua e whara." Mena he tohu kaha kei te tūpono te tangata ki te mahi tutu, me whai ngā kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro i ngā tikanga tuku me te ripoata kua whakapumautia, me te pupuri tonu i te huarahi atawhai tangata.
Me aro hoki te kaupapa tohutohu ki ngā āhuatanga ahurea me ngā whakapono. Ehara i te mea ko te huarahi ārai i te whakakeke i ētahi whakapono te tikanga he whakahē i ētahi whakapono. Engari, mā te kaupapa tohutohu whai hua ka āwhina i te tangata ki te ora i ō rātou whakapono i roto i te huarahi hauora, manawanui, me te rangimārie, me te karo hoki i ngā whakamārama e whakamana ana i te tutu.
Te Katinga
Ko te mahi tohutohu hei ārai i te whakakeketanga ka mahi i te taumata tino taketake: te āwhina i te tangata kia rongohia, kia māramahia, kia kaha ake te whakahaere i ō rātou oranga. Mā te whakarato i tētahi wāhi haumaru mō te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te whakapakari i te manawanui, te whakamahi i te whakahaere kare ā-roto, te whakawhanake i te whakaaroaro arohaehae, me te whakawhānui ake i te tautoko pāpori, ka taea e te tohutohu te noho hei parepare tuatahi whai hua ki ngā whakaaro tino uaua. I roto i tētahi hapori uaua haere, e hono ana ki te mamati, ko te haumi ki ngā ratonga tohutohu—i roto i ngā kura, i ngā puni, i ngā hapori, me ngā whare hauora—ehara i te mea he mea nui ki te hinengaro anake, engari he rautaki pāpori hoki mō te pupuri i te rangimārie me te kotahitanga o te katoa.
