Te Āhua o te Hinengaro ki ngā Whakataunga Pūtea
He maha ngā wā ka whakaarohia ngā whakataunga pūtea hei hua o ngā tātaitanga whaitake: te tātai i te moni whiwhi, te ine i ngā whakapaunga, te whakatairite i ngā reiti huamoni, kātahi ka whiriwhiri i te kōwhiringa pai rawa atu. Heoi, i roto i te mahi, he maha ngā kōwhiringa pūtea e pāngia ana e te mahi a te hinengaro i ngā tau tonu. Ko te hinengaro—tae atu ki ngā kare ā-roto, ngā tikanga, ngā whakaaro pohehe, me ngā pēhanga pāpori—ka hanga i te āhua o tā tātou aromatawai i te mōrearea, te tirohanga ki te moni, me te whakatau. Mā te mārama ki te pānga o te hinengaro ki ngā whanonga pūtea ka āwhina i a tātou ki te karo i ngā hapa noa me te whakawhanake i ngā tikanga ōhanga pai ake.
1. Ehara te moni i te tau noa iho, engari he tohu kare ā-roto.
Ki te tini o te tangata, he tikanga ā-hinengaro tō te moni: te haumaru, te herekore, te mana, tae noa ki te pūtake o te pakanga. Ina honoa te moni ki ngā kare ā-roto, ka iti ake te tūnga o te whakatau. Tērā pea ka tino penapena te tangata i tipu ake i roto i te taiao uaua ohaoha nā te wehi kei kore e ranea, ko ētahi ia ka noho pukumahi hei huarahi ki te "whakautu i a rātou anō" i muri i te ahotea, i te kore rānei e maiohatia.
Ka taea hoki e ngā kare ā-roto pēnei i te manukanuka, te wehi, te harikoa rānei te awe i ngā whakataunga whakaaro nui. Hei tauira, ina hinga te mākete hea, ka taea e te wehi te meinga ngā kaipupuri moni kia mataku me te hoko rawa i ngā utu iti, ahakoa he haumitanga roa i te tīmatanga. I tetahi atu taha, ina "werawera" te ia o te haumitanga, ka taea e te harikoa te ārahi i te tangata ki te hoko rawa me te kore tātari, nā te wehi kei ngaro.
2. Te Whakaaroaro Whānui: Ngā Hapa Whakaaro Pūnaha
Ko ngā whakaaro hē ko ngā tauira whakaaro hē e ārahi ana i a tātou ki te whakatau i ngā whakataunga kāore i te tino pai. I roto i te pūtea, ko ētahi o ngā whakaaro hē e tino kitea ana ko:
a. Te mataku ki te ngaronga (te āwangawanga mō te ngaronga)
He nui ake te mamae o te tangata i ngā mate i te harikoa i ngā hua ōrite. Nō reira, he tokomaha te hunga e whakahē ana i ngā haumitanga pai nā te mea he nui rawa te aro ki te mate ka puta. Nā tēnei whakaaro pōhēhē ka roa rawa te pupuri a te tangata i ngā rawa e ngaro ana, me te tumanako ka "whakahokia mai ā rātou haumitanga," i te mea he pai ake te neke i ngā moni ki ngā kōwhiringa hauora ake.
b. Te whakaū i te whakaaro (te rapu whakamāramatanga)
Ka rapua e tātou ngā kōrero e tautoko ana i ō tātou ake whakapono, ā, ka warewarehia ngā mea e whakahē ana i aua kōrero. I roto i ngā whakataunga pūtea, ko te hunga e whakaaro ana ki tētahi hua haumi ka pānui noa i ngā whakaaro pai, me te kore e whakaaro ki ngā mōrearea e pā mai ana ki ētahi atu.
c. Te whakaaro pōhēhē o nāianei (te hiahia ki nāianei kaua ki muri)
He tokomaha te hunga e whiriwhiri ana i te whakamānawa tere i ngā painga mō te wā roa. Ko te whakaaro o nāianei te take e uaua ai te penapena, te haumi rānei: kāore e kitea wawetia ngā hua, engari ko te whakapau moni he whakamānawa tere. Koia te take he tino reka ai ngā kāri nama, ngā kāri utu ā-muri, me ngā hekenga.
d. Te punga (kua mau ki te tau tuatahi)
He māmā noa te aro ki te tau tuatahi ka kitea e tātou, pērā i te utu taketake i mua i te hekenga utu. Mēnā ka whakarārangihia te "utu noa" o tētahi taonga ki te Rp2.000.000, kātahi ka heke ki te Rp1.200.000, ka whakaaro te tangata kei te whiwhi rātou i tētahi utu pai, ahakoa kāore pea rātou e hiahia ki te taonga. Ka noho te tau tuatahi hei punga e awe ana i ngā whakaaro o te "iti" me te "utu nui".
3. Te Awe o te Taiao Hapori me te Taiao Ahurea
Kāore i te maha ngā whakataunga pūtea e puta noa ana i te korenga o te whakaaro. Ko te whānau, ko ngā hoa, ko ngā pāpāho, me ngā ahurea katoa e hanga ana i ō tātou paerewa āhua noho me te tirohanga ki te moni. Ka taea e te pēhanga pāpori te akiaki i ngā hoko kia "rite" ki te hapori, pērā i te whakapai ake i tō waea, te whai i ngā momo ahua, te haere hararei utu nui rānei mō ngā ihirangi pāpāho pāpori.
I tētahi atu taha, he pānga nui anō hoki ngā tikanga whānau. Ko ētahi whānau e whakamahi ana i ngā kōrero pūtea, e whakaako ana i ngā tamariki ki te penapena mai i te tamarikitanga hei tikanga; ko ētahi e whakaaro ana he kaupapa tapu te moni, ā, ka tipu ake ngā tamariki me te kore e mōhio ki te pūtea. Ko te ahurea "mana" ka ārahi i ētahi ki te whakatairanga i te āhua o waho i te pumau o te pūtea.
4. Ngā Tikanga me te Aunoatanga Whanoke
Ko te nuinga o ngā whakataunga pūtea o ia rā ehara i te mea he whakataunga nui, engari he kōwhiringa iti, he kōwhiringa auau: te hoko kawhe, te tono kai, te eke waka, te ohauru ki tētahi taupānga, te hokohoko rānei ina hoha. Nā te mea he auau, ka noho ēnei whakataunga hei tikanga ka puta aunoa me te kore whakaaro nui.
I roto i te hinengaro, ka penapena te roro i te pūngao mā te hanga i ngā ara poto. Ko te tikanga, ki te mea ka "whakatau tātou i te ahotea" mā te hokohoko tuihono, ka puta anō taua whanonga ina ahotea tātou me te kore e mōhio. Koinei te wāhi e tino hira ai te hanga i tētahi pūnaha, kaua e whakawhirinaki noa ki te whakaaro. Hei tauira, te whakarite i ngā penapena aunoa, te whakatakoto i ngā here whakapaunga ia marama, te muku rānei i ngā taupānga hokohoko e whakaoho ana i te nuinga o ngā hihiri.
5. Te Tirohanga ki te Mōrearea me te Āwangawanga
He maha ngā whakataunga pūtea e pā ana ki te koretake: ngā haumitanga, te inihua, ngā nama, tae noa ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi mahi. He rerekē te hinengaro o te tangata i roto i tō rātou manawanui ki te mōrearea. Ko ētahi e pai ana ki ngā piki me ngā heke mō te tūponotanga o ngā hua teitei ake, ko ētahi e pai ake ana ki te tino mohio, ahakoa he iti ake ngā hua.
Ko te raruraru, he maha ngā wā kāore i te tika te tirohanga mōrearea. Ka taea e te tangata te whakaiti i te mōrearea ina tino maia rātou, hei tauira, me te whakaaro ka "tino whai hua" rātou i te hokohoko me te kore wheako. I tetahi atu taha, ka taea hoki e te tangata te whakanui rawa i te mōrearea nā ngā wheako kino, pērā i te mamae o te tinihanga i roto i te haumitanga me te karo i ngā taputapu pūtea katoa i tua atu i ngā penapena noa.
6. Kaute Hinengaro: Te Wehewehe i te Moni ki ngā "Pouaka" Rerekē
Ko te kaute hinengaro te ia o te wehewehe moni i runga i ngā pūtake rerekē, i ngā kaupapa rerekē rānei, ahakoa he ōrite te pāngarau. Hei tauira, tera pea he tangata e tino penapena ana i ana whakapaunga o ia marama engari e whakapau moni ana ki te bonus nā te mea e whakaaro ana ia he "moni tāpiri". Kāore rānei, he pai ake te tangata ki te whakapau moni i ngā toenga matihiko nā te mea he rerekē te ahua o te ngaronga moni.
Ehara i te mea kino tonu te kaute hinengaro. Mēnā ka whakamahia tika, ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakahaere i ō pūtea—hei tauira, mā te wehewehe i ō pūkete mō ngā mea e hiahiatia ana, ngā penapena, ngā moni ohorere, me ngā whakangahau. Heoi, ki te kore e tirohia, ka arahi pea ki ngā whanonga kore taurite, ā, ka ārai i ngā whāinga roa.
7. Me pēhea te whakahaere i ngā āhuatanga hinengaro mō ngā whakataunga pūtea hauora ake
Ko te mārama ki te hinengaro ehara i te mea ko te whakakore i ngā kare ā-roto, engari ko te whakahaere i aua kare ā-roto. Ko ētahi rautaki hei āwhina:
1. Hoatu he wā okiokinga ki a koe anō i mua i ngā whakataunga nui. Whakatinanahia he ture 24-hāora, 7-rā rānei i mua i te hoko nui, i ngā whakataunga haumi rānei. Mā tēnei wā okiokinga ka whakamarie i ngā kare ā-roto me te whakamārama i tō hinengaro.
2. Whakamahia he pūnaha aunoa. Mā ngā whakawhiti aunoa ki ngā penapena/haumitanga ka taea ngā whakatau pai te whakatutuki, me te kore e whakawhirinaki ki te hihiri o ia rā.
3. Tuhia ngā whāinga pūmau. Kāore i te tino whai hua te whāinga pēnei i te "E hiahia ana ahau ki te penapena nui atu" i te "E hiahia ana ahau ki te penapena i te Rp. 1.000.000 ia marama mō te putea ohorere e ono marama."
4. Tāutuhia ngā mea e whakaoho ana i ō kare ā-roto. Tuhia te wā e tino hiahia ana koe ki te mahi: te wā e ngenge ana, e ahotea ana, e hoha ana, i muri rānei i te whiwhinga utu. Mā tēnei, ka taea e koe te whakawhanake rautaki, pērā i te whakawhiti mahi, te whakawhāiti rānei i te whakapau moni.
5. Whakawhāitihia te pānga ki ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te FOMO. Whakaitihia te kai i ngā ihirangi e akiaki ana i te whakataurite pāpori, i ngā kupu whakaari rānei mō te tere whai rawa. Arotahi ki ō mahere whaiaro.
6. Rapua he tirohanga tuarua. Mā te kōrero ki tētahi rōpū kore whakaaro, pērā i tētahi hoa rangatira, i tētahi hoa whakaaro nui, i tētahi kaiwhakamahere pūtea rānei, ka taea te whakaiti i te whakaaro whaiaro.
Te Katinga
Ehara i te mea ko ngā tau anake ngā whakataunga pūtea; he whakaata i te āhua o te aromatawai a te roro i te mōrearea, te tukatuka i ngā kare ā-roto, me te urupare ki te taiao pāpori. Ko ngā whakaaro hinengaro, ngā tikanga, ngā pēhanga ahurea, me ngā wheako o mua ka hanga i ngā tauira kāore e mōhiotia ana e tātou. Mā te mārama ki te hinengaro kei muri i ngā whakataunga pūtea, ka taea e tātou te whakahaere pai ake i ō tātou kare ā-roto, te whakawhanake i ngā rautaki pono, me te whakatau i ngā whakataunga e hangai ana ki ā tātou whāinga roa. Hei whakamutunga, ehara i te mea ko te whiwhi moni nui anake te hauora pūtea, engari ko te whakahaere i ō tātou whanonga me ngā whakaaro mō te moni.
